THE SUPER PLACE OF REAL HONESTY AND TRUTH

 

Traveling to a place to complain, to have a person to talk to who will not use my complaints to increase their authority or gain monetary earnings from me complaining.

Traveling to a place where I can be unhappy and not have these honesties of moods and emotions seen as undesirable, not to need these emotions to be changed, to feel the fullness of sadness and when expressing this sadness to another, having the listener do just that, listen, not to be instead a judge or try to change honest natural emotions.

To be able to experience happiness to its fullest degree and also sadness to its fullest degree. To realize the potential in your life if we direct our energies to changing the circumstances of what is causing the sadness, to then change life's occurrences that are responsible for the cause of the sadness, if, and only if, these occurrences CAN be changed or need to be changed. There are life/death occurrences that can never be changed and we would not want them to be changed. If a loved one dies, no longer is here on Earth, there is a natural sadness that occurs and cannot and should not be altered.

In this place of honesty and emotional integrity, we could use the energy of our emotions to do "tikkun olam" or the changing/healing of the world, to use our energies to be a real listener. A listener without an ulterior motive, without using someone's needs or troubles to get a gain for yourself.

To be in a position of not having food, then to receive food, and then to create your own food, and then to give this food you have created away to others who have no food, but now do, because you have fed them.

To have emotional compassion for those who have not, if you are a person who has, and to fill the hands of those "have-nots." To use your honest emotional experience of sadness of someone's plight to be able to change his circumstances. Not to be milked of your honest emotions so you cannot feel the troubles of another. To be in his shoes, to feel his pains, to let yourself feel this discomfort, purposely, so you have the impetus to help him.

Not to have a life that is so topsy-turvy that you cannot be counted upon. To not be "busy" when someone calls upon you. To not pretend you can fill someone's needs and do it for a moment and then quit, leaving him high and dry hanging and then falling from a limb.

To really truly be there for another and to help those in need with your talents that can help him. Not to stop using your talents for that person, continuing your healing of others because you yourself have been healed by another.

Not to lie about your availability or accessibility to someone who counts on you, not saying you care using empty words, but in a real pinch doing nothing to help anyone except yourself.

Taking good care of yourself so you can continue to be the "rock" of stability for your loved ones, always there for them, someone who they will never lack, a person to be like an Angel for others, to create goodness through your actions to continue life's honest true moments of happiness for yourself and those who love you.