A SINCERE COMPLIMENT VS. KILLING YOU WITH KINDNESS

Talking to someone as he looks not into your bright eyes but into the prism reflection of your diamond necklace. Not diamond? Cubic Zirconia? He does not know and will never know if you do not tell him. Tax Day? Your income reports go to the IRA. They know what your income is and where its from, yes, there is gossip and slander among State employees, databases, if you know the password and so no, your income is not confidential. Not eligible for certain government benefits, yes, eligible for others. Depends on your health and amount of property assets and your work abilities.

If you have certain limitations, and someone lies to you and tells you that you do not have these limitations that are proven by your medical record and work resume, then he is not doing you a favor. He is "killing" you with kindness. If he instead says he adores your necklace, whether real diamond or not, this is a sincere compliment. If he wants your diamond and gold jewelry to increase, but he does nothing to make this happen, again this is a false promise, and he is still killing you with kindness.

To let someone know you like them, or if it is family, that you love them, is a sincere compliment and these simple words, "I love you" can become unconditional love; not killing with kindness, especially if you ask them for a favor and they deliver it. If they do not have the means to deliver you your favor, then you know they would if they could. There are some people who will lie and say they cannot deliver you your favor when the opposite is true, they have the means and the money, but still they do not come through when times for you is tough. Can we see unconditional love in he who is honest, or who just lies white lies, versus someone who is lying to you vehemently and killing you with kindness.

Where is this kindness? Not in the wink of an eye. Not in the flash of a gold tooth. Not in the offer of a cigar.

This kindness is true if the person who is kind to you truly loves you. And this you will know, it will be obvious. Gd will show her/him to you in your life and in your dreams. Never let him/her down, s/he is your true diamond, worth more than money.